You ARE Attractive

Many people have a false self-image of themselves and believe that they are unattractive or undesirable. This skewed self-image can affect every part of their life from their self-esteem and self-confidence to their job and relationships. If you have a poor self-image, it affects how you feel about yourself across the board; you can even feel less important than those around you.

There are many factors which can cause someone to think that they are unattractive, but all of those factors essentially come from one issue — comparing yourself to others. When you compare yourself to other people, whether it is how they look, how much money they make, their lifestyle, how they dress, etcetera, it can hurt your self-esteem and self-confidence. It also disrupts your inner peace.

Stop comparing yourself to other people! You are not on this planet to compete with others or to be like everyone else; you are here to live your life, not to be concerned with how everyone else lives or how they look.

Comparing yourself to other people is rarely a good idea. If you feel that you must compare yourself to other people, compare yourself to the billions of people who have less than you and feel grateful for how blessed you are. And have no doubts, there are billions of people on this planet who dream about having the kind of life that you are living.

The problem with comparing your looks to other people is that you will almost always compare your looks to people who you find very attractive or more attractive than you. Then you start to be overly critical of yourself and falsely believe that you do not measure up. This can also lead to negative traits such as jealousy, envy, and even hatred.

Why compare your looks or your body to anyone else? You are not in competition with the other person. Your focus should be on being the best that you can be, not judging yourself or sizing yourself up according to how someone else looks or lives.

The fact is, if 99% of the human population thought that you were ugly, there would still be around 80 million people on this planet who would find you attractive. That’s a lot of people who would still think that you are good looking!

It is up to you to decide what you want to focus your thoughts on. Had you rather focus on the people who may find you unattractive or on the millions of people who find you attractive? Why focus on thoughts that make you feel bad when you could just as easily focus on thoughts that make you feel good?

Remember, the law of attraction states that what you think about increases. If you think about how unattractive you believe yourself to be, you will attract more people to your circle who do not find you attractive. If you think about how unique and wonderful you are, you will attract more people who find you special and attractive. The choice is yours.

The truth is that your belief can make you more or less attractive to others. If you believe you are unattractive, then those thoughts will affect your personality, self-confidence, and your overall behavior. If you believe you are attractive, that will be evident in how you conduct yourself in every area of your life and you will actually become more attractive to others.

Stop allowing false comparisons and skewed beliefs to negatively affect your life! There are millions of people in this world who find you attractive; why focus on those who you believe find you unattractive? Just be YOU! And do so with confidence, inner peace, and self-esteem and you will attract those people who see the attractiveness and value which you have to offer. Bohdi Sanders ~ author of the multiple award-winning book, The Art of Inner Peace, available from Amazon at: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1937884279. Signed copies are available from: https://www.the-art-of-inner-peace.com/.